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. I" }! k6 n8 NSometimes people come into your life
: g5 Q- Q5 Z3 W: e: r( O- zyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
7 }! {, J! l: F% J3 Fto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
: G$ _; H3 M4 K: G, \or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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9 J/ _& `2 H8 I: dYou never know who these people may be
5 w/ E2 i" A, C0 C3 u) hbut when you lock eyes with them,
5 O1 O1 Q: Q# Lyou know at that very moment,- n0 j8 _& V1 w( k, U; y
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They will affect your life in some profound way! M3 f/ o# h% ]4 S2 g
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!7 o1 a5 m. Z1 ?2 i/ f$ m
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
@8 `0 O6 x% O- H% tThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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, I6 c% W' @9 B1 U) j; q+ j, wThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. ?+ x! Z% g N) i6 \
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.8 X F6 ]+ T! a$ S# E% ? K4 |% b
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. @! m" j' F- _- ?
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% k, {. z- |1 F: T7 }& T" OWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
8 ]2 R5 i4 \: c" K" P# \our desire fulfilled, their work is done.- x0 X! T; m$ K
The prayer you sent up has been answered.2 D2 w0 R; D) T+ d6 P0 W" {
And now it is time for you to move on.
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8 R; j6 f0 p1 [ u, Q y4 V3 TThen people come into your life for a REASON, d* n; S: k6 G* S; t: U
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.* D, @+ D2 k+ P
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
9 ~0 `( P6 [: Y. }1 d+ E8 T4 e' Q$ QThey may teach you something you have never done.
" B. a7 `8 A' L! BThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.' z# T& L: [: F* u7 w, Z
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦- ^ _1 V$ r' U- g( X
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:. w6 o. ?$ r0 W
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
- @4 C0 f& h0 S; e& }3 `% {: ]Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
- b( q1 r0 V. P( U5 @Everything happens for a reason.
8 n( R5 R/ G4 D2 C" V8 G! mNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
0 y# ^, l. g$ K0 V6 ?! ]$ H) K2 NIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,% z/ N% T8 ^/ k: T: P7 \. n
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.( S! r y' ?$ R) ]
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3 j# e4 [# @! _- dIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,7 Z# v$ T, [, O: o% v
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
5 y1 I8 V. i( p/ _ TIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,0 y! i* f$ K+ O7 s1 D& D& J: d! {6 j
for they have helped you learn about trust
0 H3 U7 |! B/ B+ u- w& nand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
$ o! x, ` ^3 }( |* DIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
, c2 z4 [0 o3 O2 j8 ]Try to love them back unconditionally,
6 n2 t; t: ?9 e& |: c3 G7 M$ Z- Pnot only because they love you, but because in a way,2 o, M5 X- n. s9 `: E
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,! E( v* |- x1 U/ m$ n: R0 h# f
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.8 n! z! P, z2 {& P
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,3 k% c( q+ l* V
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
! D, ^9 A9 n, ]3 IGod's grace is as a healing hand.8 ^/ L8 H; d& h b! r, L' N' E
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
' B9 b9 n; n8 b* o9 H3 @the warm memories and love for those we have lost
|- h, s- C6 \0 N" t5 Gwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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